Cool Breeze..

Truth be told, the new job doesn't really pay all that well... (actually, I haven't been paid at all so far... but I should get my first paycheck as of tommorrow..)

That is the down side. (.. well,.. the 'not paying all that well part', not the 'getting a paycheck tommorrow' bit... which is decidedly on the 'up side' portion of the 'GOOD / BAD' scale... !)

The up side is that they are all very nice people, nobody is nasty or overbearing, they let you know what is expected of you, and expect you to do it.

I am given as much rope as I need, and it is up to me to either do well or hang myself.

I have seen a few minor catastrophes take place, and not so much as a single feather was ruffled in anyone... these folks are more in line with my personality, I think... at least insofar as I have been able to get to know them. There isn't a lot of talk or banter in the office... we are mostly pretty busy, and we simply keep at it.

I have already been given my own key to the building, the security access code, and, I basically open up and run the place for the first hour or so..

If I am able to shine enough to actually make decent money in this place, this will be a fantastic place to work!! If not, it is still a fantastic place to work until I can find some way to pay all of the bills....

I used to work from 6:30-7:00 AM until 5:00-5:30PM every day, plus 6:30-7:00AM every other Saturday... this worked out to about 53 hours per week... it sucked. On top of that, I tended bar...

Now, I work from 7:00AM until 3:30PM, and no Saturdays! This leaves me plenty of time to work a part-time second job providing that I can find one that fits that schedule... I am actively looking, and hope to find something that helps me to make enough for us to get by....

In any case, things are better than they were, and I'm happy!!

China fully endorses the situation as well!


In other news, I have been working busily on a fairly difficult craft project, lately. I tend to be driven to this sort of thing, where I can focus my mind on an extremely narrow point, when things are difficult... 'things' being defined as the general prevailing circumstances of my current life situation.. whatever they happen to be. I have been 'sitting' (Zazen -- meditation) regularly with a local group of monks from the Rinzai Zen Order. When I lived in Korea, I studied Zen, which they call Soen, and took my first Ordination while there. The Order in Korea sent me information that was needed to confirm my ordination to these folks, and they are recognizing (at least partially...) my ordination as a monk in that order, and sort of transferring it over to this order (I don't think that this is an entirely accurate description; there is no such thing as 'transferring' the ordination... but they are recognizing my past practice, and jumping my learning progress accordingly. In any case, I was told that, as a monk, I should wear proper vestments. Tradition is that we sew our own, so, I have been working on mine diligently over the past weeks and months. I am putting the finishing touches on what the Rinzai folks call a 'Koromo' or 'Kolomo', (what I know ((in Korean)) as a 'Chang-Sahm). It's a little bit weird, because I have Korean garment patterns in my head.. so they are coming out as Japanese vestments with a Korean accent or something... nobody minds.

For all of you with question marks floating over your head right now... this is a separate discipline from the main order in which I am currently studying for ordination. There is no impediment or theological conflict, and both orders know and encourage me to learn what I may in my search for truth, in my efforts to purify and enlighten my heart, mind, and soul, and to live a life of contemplation, reflection, and simplicity, which is what I have chosen...

In any case, since my monastic day is supposed to be broken up into 'work self-support', 'work for mindful caretaking of the home/hermitage/monastery' (wherever I happen to make my dwelling), and 'work of the order', this offers me a way of expressing that work very nicely, since 'work of the order' is described as; "Teaching, social action, care of the environment, the care, maintenance, manufacture or design of 'liturgical objects' and/or 'priestly vestments, or other similar pursuits, ventures, or activity" and my project happens to fit the bill very nicely!

I have already made vestments for my main order, so this strikes me as slightly strange to be making other vestments... I feel like a monastic double-agent or something... I should design a sandal-phone!

At any rate, I love the work, I don't use patterns... I work entirely from the patterns and measurements that are inside of my skull.. and I derive a sense of detached, calm, satisfaction in the quiet diligence of my work.

Today, I should be able to put the finishing touches on the Chang-Sam/Koromo, and then I will move on to whatever the next project in the list is.... if my wife doesn't stave my head in first...

I am happy in my new job, it is refreshing... like a cool breeze after a period of hard work...

I am happy with my current state of affairs from a spiritual standpoint... I had begun to fear that I was drifting away from this facet of my life and becoming dangerously one-sided.... and now, I feel balanced and calm and whole.

I have to find a way to work with and within the universe in order to be able to pay my bills however... I don't want to be responsible for us losing this beautiful home that we have made... so, to a great degree, the pressure is on..

Anyway... wish me luck on finding the part-time work!! I really need it...

Perhaps I should think about participating in 'Project Affirmation' with Marcheline of Mental Meatloaf...

.. I have to do something, and soon.. that much is certain! I have this half-baked thought in my head that it shouldn't be as hard as it seems to be;.. I can do just about anything, and do it well, in the realm of administration, office management and flow, organization, writing, research, art, craft, verbal skills... or manual labor for that matter... it would seem that there should be zillions of businesses close by that would leap at the chance to have somebody who is reliable and capable to work for them... even on a part-time basis... but, it is turning out to be fairly difficult for me to find something... more so than I had anticipated, at any rate. Ach!! I'll find something.. I just have to think outside the box, I guess... keep yer fingers crossed, folks...





In Peace and Brotherhood,

Bear

Everything That We Need...

I woke up early this morning, and, while the rest of the world slept around me (or seemed to..) I simply knelt by the window and watched the morning unfold..

In time, a tiny little brown sparrow showed up near the feeder and began to root around, poking here, poking there... and then, it flew off..

I watched it as it flew away, disappearing out of sight... and I marvelled how such a tiny little thing, without the capability to call for or to receive help... a little creature that has no hands, no tools.. seemingly nothing.. manages to get by and live in such a huge, complicated world..

I don't know what it does, or how it does it each and every day... I don't know where it goes, or who with... but, it would appear that it gets by quite nicely..

..and I was, and continue to be, amazed by this!!

Just one tiny, helpless little bird in all of the world... and it knows *precisely* how to be *precisely* what it is... and it does it!

Each and every day.

It lives *precisely* as long as it lives... and then it dies *precisely* when it dies... and that's all! It doesn't worry about it.. doesn't agonize over it.. doesn't do anything except what it was born to do... be a tiny little brown sparrow. And it does this *perfectly*!!

As the tiny brown shape disappeared into the blue sky.. leaving me to dream of small brown birds with delicate wings and shiny little black eyes... it dawned on me;

The Universe is perfect!! It gives us *everything* that we need to do whatever it is that we must do... it left nothing out!.. It is*all* right here around us, right now, all the time!!

I find immense beauty in this...

Thank you, little brown bird, for being such a wonderful teacher..

More Movie Reviews

After suffering through "The Drop", as I described in my earlier post... we moved on to what we hoped were bigger and better things in the world of film-making.. or not...

The idea, being that we are steadily sneaking up on Halloween, was to begin our annual 'Halloween Horror Movie Marathon Extravaganza' (H.H.M.M. - things that make ya go.."Hmmmmm...") here at Thistlebright early enough that we would actually have at least a slim chance of actually finding the time to watch most, if not all, of our horror movies, and, perhaps, to even pop a few new selections into the mix... so.. off we went to the local video rental place, and after painstakingly working our way through the horror movie section... of all of the many hundreds of possibilities... these were our big picks... what a pair of goats we turned out to be in the movie selection department, so far... Oh, man..

Our second pick, "Haunted Highway", was creepily, eerily, disturbingly similar to "The Drop" in many ways; an almost identical dorky protagonist, non-existent plot, characters that you not only do not identify with.. you actually find yourself hoping that they will be killed so that you don't have to deal with them any longer! There were unbelievably tiresome unending repetitions of the same vapid film clip, ceaseless and confusing running back and forth with no apparent purpose... senseless dialog, it was a complete abortion... this movie was, apparently, of the "Hey! I got a video camera that I borrowed, and nothing to do on Saturday evening.... wanna make a movie?!?!" variety...



"Haunted Highway... Prepare to be Driven Insane" - Driven insane?! They were right about that! But, I somehow don't think that it worked out the way they planned... yikes!

Watching this...


... was more interesting by far!


On to the third and final pick of the lot;




Ladies and Gentlemen... we have a winner! "The Hills Have Eyes" is a remake of the 1977 movie of the same title, written by Wes Craven.

This movie was creepy, hideous, disturbing, eerie, macabre, and sort of scary... but, in the way it is supposed to be!! It was well made, suspenseful, had its share of surprises, and was an all around good movie!!

We both enjoyed it and gave it a resounding thumbs up!! So, it looks like the third time pays for all!

Drop "The Drop"

We rented this movie and watched it last night;



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... ... When I am on my deathbed, I am going to wish I had that time back..

Blogroll Banners

I was playing around with my page, and decided to make some banners for the folks on my blogroll... I basically used images from their pages so that I could preserve the feeling that the authors wanted to portray on their individual blogs... with the exception of Mona, who's banner I made from scratch using her avatar...

Firstly, if any of you hate the banner that I made to link to your blog, please let me know and I will remove it promptly...

If anyone wants to make a banner and send it to me here, and I will put them up. Please make them either 88 pixels wide by 25 pixels high, or, if they must be larger in order to be able to make out the image, 130 pixels wide by 36 pixels high.

For those of you for whom I did not make any banners, please do not be disheartened.. I didn't pick them in any particular order other than that I remembered that either they had a ready made image that I could adapt, or, that I wanted to try to make one using some element of their page... this is simply my creative instincts wanting to stretch thier legs... no worries!

What Gives?

Okay... let's say for a minute that You are an employer who has a position to fill, and that I am a job applicant who is eminently qualified for the position. Bear with me, here...

You go through the trouble of writing a job posting and actually posting it somewhere where prospective applicants can find it and, hopefully, respond to it... (this is what you are hoping for, I presume...) (yes?? no?? Yes??)

A job applicant... (Me!) finds the ad, considers it an appropriate position, and wants to be in your employ... said job applicant writes a cover letter, and attaches a 'very well put together, impressive resume' (not my description.. I am quoting a non-biased third-party.. for the sake of fairness).

NOTE: I am referring to job openings where I am **ABSOLUTELY** confident that I can not only do the job, but do the job in an exemplary fashion.. I AM TELLING YOU THAT I AM VERY WELL QUALIFIED FOR THESE POSITIONS! Period!!


Back to our hypothetical ( .. or not so... ) situation: So.. Job applicant now responds to your ad, with a resume that clearly claims that the applicant is very well qualified for the position that you are ostensibly looking to fill!!

You may or may not have a great many responses to the posting.. but, here is a qualified applicant who has taken the time to courteously respond to your advertisement, and who is quite obviously attempting to find gainful employment.

You (Choose the best response):

1. Promptly respond to applicant, scheduling an interview.
   
2. Ignore response completely.
   
3. Respond politely, explaining that the position has been filled, but that you will maintain the applicant's file on record.
   
4. Send out a quick auto-response indicating that the resume has been received, that it will be reviewed, but that only the most qualified applicants will be contacted.
   

Why do so many of you choose option #2?? Don't you want to fill the position? IS there a position? Were you raised by wild animals who were completely lacking in the ability to socialize you? Would it kill you to let me know that you received my message/letter and that either you are considering me or have rejected me outright for some reason? Do you have any sympathy/empathy for your fellow human beings? Just wondering...

What the heck is UP with that?? I would really like to know... it is exceedingly frustrating...

Thanx for listening..

Obviously, the job search is going extraordinarily well.. {SNORT!!}

Séamas, in answer to your comment...

a-Shéamuis, a-chara,

Ná bíodh buairt ort i mo thaobhsa. d'fhéadfadh an scéal a bheith ní ba mheasa... ar chaoi ar bith, bhí mé i mbearna ba chaoile ná sin ó shin i leith. Ar aon chaoi, Bí sí mo mhatair i gconai fós.. agus tá an t-am sin thart, anois.

(Sorry for being so late in reply... I just stumbled across it (the comment)... Oh, man.. how'm *I* doin'?!

Status Report

Today I went on a job interview..

The job doesn't pay all that well to start, but there is room for advancement. The company is growing in leaps and bounds, and it seems that this is the reason that they are hiring.

The facility is a wee bit of a crap-hole, but, it isn't completely disgusting. The folks in the office all appear to me moderately normal and are recognizibly human... no horns, wings, or other assorted non-human body parts or obvious mutations.. to some extent, they even seem socially capable... perhaps even polite!

They have a dog there named 'China'. China would hire me starting immediately. China was very happy to see me, and basically just wants everyone to be her friend, the occasional pat or scratch, and perhaps the odd milkbone snack now and again...

The owner is a slim, good-looking, courteous and quiet sort of a guy... very self-possessed, (at least insomuch as I am able to tell by only having met him in the briefest of circumstances, that being the interview...), and he strikes me as being extremely intelligent, and on the ball... which, to be honest, I find refreshing...

The interview seemed to go fairly well.. and I suppose I will simply have to wait and see what comes of it, if anything...

The location is literally four minutes away from my house... and that is counting two red lights!! The amount of money that I would save on gas and maintenance alone almost eats up the pay hit... but not quite. The telling factor would be whether (IF I were to be hired, and IF I were able to quickly get my feet on the ground and running..) I could do a good enough job of it to merit a payraise or promotion, or, perhaps, consideration for a better position within the company... I suppose that would depend upon whether or not it is the sort of organization that takes note of, and recognizes this sort of thing...

At the very worst case scenario... It would be some income until I could manage to come up with a better plan...

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I contacted the Nose to let him know that I was going to be using him as a reference, and he assured me that he would give me a good one... I did a fantastic job there, so I don't see any reason why he would be able to do anything else without being a complete liar....

Then, I contacted my old boss from the job previous to the last one, and advised her that I used her as a reference as well (she gave me open permission for time immemorial to do so...), and she told me that she would tell anyone calling for a reference check that I am 'terrific'. (Terrific is good!)

Lastly, I stopped by the place where I tend bar, and spoke with the owner, asking if they could see fit to schedule me for any extra work that comes around... and getting their blessing to work at any other of the competing businesses in the area... (I don't really have to do this... but, out of respect, I think it is the right thing to do... He encouraged me to do whatever is necessary to make things do whatever they have to do... and wished me luck... he said that he would speak to the banquet manager, who does the scheduling, and see if they couldn't throw some extra work my way... no guarantees, mind you... but they will try).

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It is a beautiful day... sunny, bright, breezy, and cheerful.. birds are singing, and the cats are dozing.

There aren't any new leads for me to pursue today... nobody is doing much posting of jobs online... so, I think I might take some mental decompression time and do something other than search, search, search for a job... at least for a little while... clear my head, re-motivate... so that when I get back to it I can be sharp, and on the ball!!

I'm happy... I would like to have a job, obviously, but, it takes some time... I can't make it go any faster than I am already doing...

I am going to the local bartending school starting Monday (If I don't have a job...) in order to brush up on stuff that I don't generally do where I now work... hopefully, this will make me a little more marketable in that respect...

Marcheline agreed to help me out to learn the finer points of 'Quickbooks'...

And that pretty much covers all of the loose ends...

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I'm beating the bushes, and making things happen... but, to some extent, as in most things, I have to let things unfold in their own way, and in their own time...

In the meantime, I am going to enjoy this marvelous day that I have been given...

It doesn't really take all that much, when you get down to it, to make me happy...

... On that respect, China and I are very much on the same wavelength!

Life Happens, Sometimes...

The long and short of the meeting today was that I am no longer employed...

The sort of cheesy part is that they offered me straight Saturdays...
Just Saturdays... for half-a-day...

What, I can't help but wonder, was the point of that, exactly? Was it meant to soften the blow in some creepily sideways logic sort of way?? I suspect that this whole issue was more or less manufactured as an escape strategy... which is fine. Though, I have to say that a simple, "Your position is being eliminated, you have two weeks to find another job..." would have been much more appreciated.. (did I say 'appreciated'? ... or 'something'). I felt like I needed to take a shower when I left out of there. Ig!

I am sort of split apart about how I feel about this whole thing... though for the most part I am simply accepting it with as much equanimity as possible, under the circumstance... not that I have all that much of a choice in the matter...

Part of me is glad to have been given the push so that I will find more suitable employment, hopefully where I can put both my intellect and my skills to good use... part of me feels as though I have been misused and cast aside like so much unwanted garbage... and part of me is simply worried about what the future brings...

... mostly though, it is simply what it is. I will find work. I have no other choice. Generally, life is the thing that happens while we are planning something else...

I cannot change the fact that both pleasures and pains will be a part of my experience... and I cannot change the fact that both will come and go. Wonderful, happy, times will pass... and this will cause me pain... but I have learned that when something beautiful or wonderful passes... something beautiful always remains...

When difficult situations come, I have to remember that they, too will pass... and in their wake, I will be stronger, more resilient, certainly tougher... and, perhaps, a little wiser...

Since I cannot change these things, all that is left for me to do is make my heart more accomodating to both of these extremes... because both are a part of my life. Both are a part of all of our lives.

Today there was some difficulty... but the sky was clear, and blue, and filled with shining white clouds! The weather was warm, and bright, and cheerful... and now I have a brand new canvas upon which to paint whatever the next chapter of my life will be...

... its all up to me.

Tommorrow, I will wake up, kiss my wife, enjoy a warm cup of coffee while I survey the morning that the world has seen fit to present to me... perhaps with a snuggly kitty in my lap....

I will do my usual daily mindfulness practice; that is, practicing how to appreciate the simple uncomplicated moment of 'now'.

I will greet the sun, and the day, and I will pray... like any other day.

And then?

Then I will take the first halting steps on the new road that has been laid out before me...

Whatever it is, and wherever it leads, it is part of my story.... and, like each of us must, I have to play my part.

Go the Fuck Home!!

This is how my week transpired, starting Monday;

I went in to work, and began working on whatever it was that I had to do... so far, no problem...

The Fly was helping a customer, as well as juggling two other customers who only wanted to deal with him, and trying to help a few other folks who were holding on various phone lines... in short, he was jumping through his ass...

The customer that he was helping, and with whom he was seconds away from finishing the transaction, and, therefore, seconds away from sending happily along his way... thereby freeing him (the fly) to clear the phone lines and the counter (which is the pressure that we are always under... "Clear the counter!" "Who's holding on line 16?!" "Clear that line!").. anyway.. the customer was, as I said, mere seconds from heading out the door, when he asked the Fly for a price on a particular product. I could see the Fly almost imperceptibly deflate... he was getting it from every direction... (Monday mornings, right?). He said to the customer, "Give me a few seconds, let me just clear these phone lines, these folks have been waiting patiently". I could tell that the customer that he was talking to didn't want to hear this.... after all, everybody is the star of their own show, and with our customer base, which is primarily building contractors and roofers, this is doubly so for some reason.... so the short version is that the customer was slightly miffed at being told that he had to wait...

So. I checked the price on the computer and gave it to the customer. He thanked me and out the door he went.

A few seconds later, the Fly went out into the yard, and some moments after that, he came back into the office.

Fly: "Bear, did you give a price to that customer?!"

Me: "Yah,... why? ... ... ??!!??"

Fly: "The price in the computer is wrong!"

Me: "Oh. I, ah... yikes... Sorry! I didn't know..."

Fly: "It's Nose's job to update the prices... you couldn't have known.."

Me: "... ... ... "

The Fly went back to the Nose's office and apparently told him that I had given out the price as shown in the computer... The Nose sort of likes to snag folks screwing something up and making them sweat about it... or trying to, anyway...

Conversely, he absolutely hates when anybody does this to him! (No surprise there, I suppose... )

I heard his chair creak, which told me that he had just un-assed it... (great!), and a quarter-of-a-second later, this was confirmed by my name being bellowed out at top volume... wonderful... above all things, I love this sort of thing the most... its right up there with drilling my own teeth and finding half of a large invertebrate in my sandwich... bollocks!

Nose: "BEAR!!"

Me: ...

Nose: "BEAR!!!"

Me: [sigh..] "Yeah, Nose..."

Nose: "The next time you don't know a fucking price... you ASK someone! Got it!?!!"

Me: "Well... sure... but, I thought I did know the price... I got it out of the computer..."

Nose: "WHEN YOU DON'T KNOW A FUCKING PRICE, YOU ASK SOMEONE!!"

Me: (Taken slighly aback at this hitherto unattained level of unreasonableness).. "I just told you that I was under the impression that I knew the price, since it was in the computer.. "

Nose: (Leaning close and putting his face into mine.. I suppose this is supposed to be intimidating...) "THAT PRICE IS WRONG! YOU FUCKIN' ASK NEXT TIME WHEN YOU DON'T KNOW A PRICE!!"

Me: "So... you want me to ask you the price on everything??"

Nose: "No, ASSHOLE!!, You ask A FUCK-ING PRICE WHEN YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT THE PRICE IS!!"

Me: "But, since it was in the computer, I thought I DID know the price... why don't you put the correct price of things like you're supposed to... and then we won't have this problem??"

Nose: "I don't have the right price yet! You just ASK the fucking price when you don't know it!! Got it?!?!"

Me: "Then why don't you just take the price out altogether, if the price in the computer is wrong, and put zero in there... NO information is better than BAD information.. so, just take the price out, very simple, then it will force us to find the correct price, and we won't have this problem in the future?!?! You can't expect us to just know that a price is wrong.. that doesn't make any sense! How are we supposed to know that a price is no longer valid??"

Nose: "I'm NOT taking the price out... you have to have SOMETHING to go on!"

Me: (!! WHAT!?!? !) WHAT?!?! What does that even mean??! "You have to have something to go on?? Just take the price out, Nose, problem solved!! Why are you being like this??"

Nose: (Screaming into my face...) "I'M NOT TAKING THE FUCKING PRICE OUT!! ALL I WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU IS THAT YOU'LL ASK THE FUCKING PRICE WHEN YOU DON'T KNOW IT!!"

Me: "You can be very frustrating at times... do you know that?

Nose: "OH YEAH!?!"

Me: "Well.. yes, actually... I just told you that I got the price from the computer, that there is no way to tell whether a price is valid simply by looking at it, and I asked you whether you wanted me to ask you the price of everything.. each and every time which we both know is not workable... I suggested a very simple solution that would solve the problem until you have a valid price, and you refused to accept it... and you are demanding that I do something that isn't possible to do... so, YEAH!! You are! ... Very!"

Nose: "SHUT YOUR FUCKING MOUTH, AND JUST SAY YOU'LL ASK THE PRICE WHEN YOU DON'T KNOW IT!! THAT'S ALL I WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU!"

Me: "Yeah.. Sure, Nose... No problem... I'll do just that."

Nose: "That's right, cause you're garbage and you'll do what you're fucking told. You speak when you're spoken to, and you do what the fuck you're told. Period.

Me: "Whatever..."

Nose: "WHAT WAS THAT?!"

Me: "I said you're an asshole."

Nose: "....!!!...???..."

...


Nose: "Just ask the fucking price next time... that's all..."

Me: "Whatever."

Nose: "Whatev..?!?! YOU FUCKIN' GOT SOMETHING TO SAY ABOUT IT??!!"

Me: "You know what... you're just being a dick right now. I told you I would ask the price if I didn't know it. I'll do whatever you say, Nose. You're the boss, and you call the shots. However you want it is fine with me."

Nose: "JUST ASK THE FUCKING PRICE NEXT TIME."

Me: "Whatever."

Nose: "YOU DON'T LIKE IT?!!?!? GO THE FUCK HOME!! NOW!!"

So.. I packed up my few things, lunch, etc., ... and I left.

I had never actually been sent home before, so I wasn't sure precisely what that meant. I didn't know if it was a suspension, or whether I was fired, or what..

When I got home, I called Elysia/Marcheline (My wife for you new readers... ((as if!! I haven't posted in so long, I don't imagine that I have any readers anymore...)) .. to let her know what had happened...) and spent the rest of the day feeling sort of stressed out, mildly out of sorts, and, looking at job postings. I tweaked my resume, sent a few out, and basically felt like shit.

I don't like the way something so completely stupid ballooned out of control like that...

I began to wonder if there was more to it than simply the price issue. Did he simply want me gone, and use this to force me into a bad situation?? Am I that stupid to let myself be manipulated so openly??

I wasn't sure what to do, but I figured I would hear from The Nose when he settled down; either telling me that I was fired, or that I was not to come back for some period of time, or that I should come back to work the next day... or something.

Nobody called.

I waited all day Tuesday... looked at job postings... sent out resumes... and felt like shit. And... nobody called.

I spoke with a co-worker on Wednesday, and he said that The Nose was walking around asking everyone if he did the right thing, and that he was sort of being 'adamant' about the whole thing.... whatever that means.

On Thursday, I went in to the office to try to initiate some dialog, figuring that to let three days go by without showing my face there could give them ammunition to turn the situation around on me and claim that I had abandoned the job. Nose was very cold and distant and put me off... I had typed out a letter to the Department of Labor, with his signature block on it, stating that I had been employed there from start date to the the present date, and that my employment had been terminated through no fault of my own... which clears the way for an unemployment insurance claim to go through in my favor... and I asked him to sign it. He refused, saying that only the owner could sign it. I asked when he would be in, and was told 'later'.

I called the owner's brother, who works in the same office, and asked if he would have the owner contact me.

I spoke with the owner, finally, when he called me on Thursday night, and he agreed to direct The Nose to talk with me.. He agreed that the situation had gotten out of control, and that we should at least talk.

I spoke with The Nose on Friday evening, (he was initially supposed to call me early in the day, but said he would call around lunchtime, then when he didn't call I called the office, spoke with a co-worker, who said that The Nose would call at the end of the day, and, finally he did call.. and, surprisingly, he sounded like his usual normal self) and he wants to go to lunch with me on Monday and talk this over.

It will either mean that we will come to an understanding and I will return to work, or that we will come to an understanding, and I'll be out of a job.

I would prefer, I think, to return to work so that I can at least have some cash flow while I search for something better... but, at this point, I think the chips will most likely fall where they may...

I am sort of baffled at how he can demand that I somehow 'know' when a particular price, out of over 300,000 different items in the inventory, would be incorrect... since, for the most part, the price in the computer is the correct price!! Taking the price out and showing $0 is not without precedent... there are many items that we sell that show $0 because either the price changes radically due to price fluctuations in some commodity that is used to produce the item, or due to the fact that we have to call a manufacturer or distributor to get the price from them...

So, where does this leave me?? Well, the best-case scenario is that I return to work, and that I am out of a week's pay... a pretty hefty price to pay for speaking out-of-turn.

As of 1:00PM tommorrow... (Monday, 2 October) I will know whether my employment has been terminated, or whether I still have a job. I know that what he wants me to do is to simply shut up and do whatever he tells me to do, no matter whether it makes sense or not... and that I shouldn't talk back to him. Unfortunately, some flaw in my character makes this very difficult for me to do when what I am being told to do either makes no sense, or when it is so disrespectul and insulting that I rise to it and strike back.. I guess I have to learn to be a good little worker drone if I don't want to have to keep going through this sort of thing.

What I would like is to find a job where I can go in, do my work, do a good job at it, and go home. A job where the rules don't change at the whim of one person, and where, when I do what was initially agreed upon, it is viewed as doing a good job, instead of constantly expanding until it is no longer possible to do 'a good job'.

My guess is that no such job exists... but I can wish...


So... that was my week. I feel like a complete dick for giving my wife more shit to have to stress out about. To her everlasting credit and acclaim, I have to say that she never once berated me, jumped on me, or even blamed me. She said "Don't worry, we'll get through it." - which, honestly, is much easier said, than done.

On top of all of this... Thursday was our 4th wedding anniversary.

Nice job, Bear... sigh.